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Something to Talk About
By Kristen Castillo

A wedding toast is a tricky thing. It can be a little slice of flattery, fun and a lot of sentiment. But it can
also be a situation that’s giving you burnout, especially for those who have to say something witty on the spot...and if they don’t say
the right thing ... they could be toast. Wedding experts offer the following words of wisdom for those who need something smart to
say as they raise their glass.

Who should give the toast at a wedding?
The Best Man?
The Father of the Bride?
Each wedding planning guide will write something different, but generally what most agree works best is starting with the
Best Man, then Maid or Matron of Honor and so on with the
Father of the bride and Father of the groom. Last but not least, the groom may want to make a toast to his bride and/or the
bride and groom would like to make a toast together so that they can thank their parents for their love and support and guests
for coming.

Anyone who wants to?
While typically the bride and groom’s decision, industry experts warn against it. Having an open microphone at a wedding reception can open the doors for inappropriate toasts made by guests that may have had too much to drink.
What sentiment should be expressed in a toast?
Jokes? Great love stories?
Lots of emotion?
All of the above.

What makes a toast memorable?
Some simple tips on making a successful toast include: don’t wait till the last minute (allow yourself 4 weeks prior); keep it simple; write it down; practice–practice-practice; speak clearly and follow the
following formula:
Step One: Start with thanking the Bride and Groom for allowing you and the all the guests to be a part of their day.
Step Two: Here’s your chance to personalize the toast with a quote, joke (if appropriate), personal story or a special story about the couple, such as how the couple has made a positive difference in each
others lives.
Step Three: Complete your toast by offering your words of support and encouragement then, inviting the guests to raise their glasses to the Bride and Groom.
Toasting websites
InstantWeddingToasts.com
Need-a-Speech.com
ThePerfectToast.com

Books on Toasting
“The Complete Book of Wedding Toasts” by John William McCluskey
“The Little Giant Encyclopedia of Wedding Toasts” by Katherine Young
“Wedding Toasting: Finding the Perfect Words” by Jo Packham